Friday, September 20, 2019

May 23, 2005

Well it was my last Monday. Kinda sad. But it's weird. It's always the same thing with guys. Like, when I'm at church, Matt gives me butterflies. But, when I am at school, Andrew H. gives me butterflies. But, like right now, neither of them do. Jay does! I dunno. And it sucks because I can't have any of them - even though I only want two. Jay is more of a brother. Then, Matt will see me as his best friend/little sister. Then Andrew H. has a girlfriend. I dunno. And with Matt - I don't want anything to happen there because so many people would be mad or upset. I know it. And with Andrew, if something ever did happen, all my friends would look down on me. But, now that I think about both of them, I get butterflies. See, this is the thing. I wish that I could talk to Jay about. I mean, I guess I could - but I dunno what he'd think. In my mind Matt is better for me because he, well - he just is. But Andrew - gosh! I love him to death! - Not like that though. Like, as a friend. That's another thing. I always have a crush on one of my friends so if anything happened to happen - lots of stuff would be all screwed up. At least, I'd think so. Also, I go through these phases. Like, I went through this "I need a boyfriend" stage. Then I went through the whole "Who cares?" stage. Now, I'm back to square one. I really, really want a boyfriend. Like, not to kiss or anything. But to be able to hold hands with, or have him put his arm around me. Or hug. I <3 hugs! But yeah. I mean, that's not the only reason - I want the closeness of the relationship too and getting to know the guy but yeah. Those are both equal in importance but what catches my attention. Like on Sunday, when I hugged Jay goodbye - when he was holding me - I felt so, I dunno, almost perfect I guess. And I felt safe. I felt like I was on top of the world. And it wasn't because of those butterflies because I know I don't like him despite those butterflies. But I want to have that on top of the world feeling and I don't. I dunno. But, I do know that whenever it happens, it will be more worth than it would be now since time makes the worthiness higher. I think...

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Well, again, cringing. And I love that I pretend like I don't have a crush on Jay when I one thousand percent clearly did.

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